Because we live in a social media society there can be a struggle to be more concerned or worried what others think. Don’t get me wrong I think it is great to get advice and input from others. Yet at the same time, I don’t think that we should sit on pins & needles to see if we get the approval of public opinion.
I know for me I struggle with this. Especially with my decisions and what others would approve of. Because I have struggled with so much mental & emotional abuse I can have doubt if I am making a good decision. To even go one step further I can wonder if my dad or others of influence would approve.
It has taken me a very long time to realize that this is my life. I will make mistakes. Not everyone will agree or even “approve” of decisions I make in my life. At the end of the day, all that matters is that I am happy with the decisions I have made. As long as I can hold my head high and be proud of myself that is all that matters.
I know for me I need to turn off the noise of the outside world sometimes. It’s funny that sometimes I will post something on facebook and someone will post a comment about it. If I don’t like what they say I will just DELETE the comment. I think I need to do that with verbal comments someone says. Just delete it from my memory and not even allow it to replay in my mind. Just shut off the noise.
Take Care Much Love
