Why is it the mindset of our society to blame a woman for a man’s sexual arousal.
A few months ago I was having issues with my tire so I went to the tire shop to get it fixed and I was asking the mechanic to explain something to me about the tire and of course I had to bend over to see what he was talking about.
As I am trying to understand what the mechanic is talking about the owner of the shop comes out into the Mechnaic area and says “don’t bend over like that you’re going to get my mechanics all excited” That did not sit right with me.
How is this my fault? How am I responsible for a man’s arousal. It’s not my responsibility I was doing something innocent it had nothing to do with sexual behavior I wasn’t showing skin I wasn’t putting my butt in somebody’s face all I was doing was bending over but this man thought that it would be funny to say something to me and make me responsible if his employees had any type of sexual thought or sexual arousal that’s unfair to put that responsibility on somebody else. The responsibility is that of the man because he could turn away he could ignore it and actually I don’t think any of the guys are even paying attention but it just frustrates me that I’m to blame because I was doing something innocent like bending over to look at my tire.
As a society we need to stop blaming a female for a male arousal. A statement that has always sat wrong with me is a guy say “See what you did to me” when they have an erection. If I intentially flirted to peak his interest that is one thing. But if I am minding my own business and the guy is saying this as he has an erection. That does not sit right with me. I am not going to take responsibility for a mans erasoual when I am doing something innocent. We ned to chang that mindset.
To GOD Be The GLORY. Take Care Much Love
