Dear 14 year old Dana,
I am so sorry that Wilbur violated you. That is not okay for a family member to do that to you. Don’t be ashamed. None of it was your fault.
I know you are handling a lot. You feel alone. Becky ran away, your parents are going through a divorce. Don’t forget who you are. You are an amazing girl. Remember that just because your family is falling apart does not mean that they do not love you.
Remember that I love you and that I believe in you. Stay strong.
Love ya
Your future self
Me